Sunday, June 08, 2008

A Sunny Ride on a Cheerful Bike!

 


I invited my tenant, Ashok and his friend, Jasmin for a simple lunch at the Temporary Tekka Market Centre, just a stone's throw away from my apartment.

It was still drizzling when we were walking back after lunch. We saw an interesting bike parked along the road. Pedestrians who passed by also showed interest in looking more closely at the bike. I took out my digital camera and took some shots, at the same time wondering about the owner of the bike. Is the owner a lady or a man? Just as we were looking around, I saw someone taking refuge from the rain in one of the shops across the road. I pointed to the bike and asked if it belonged to him. "Ashok, that must be the owner!" "Let's cross the road and talk to him", Ashok suggested.

We found the owner a friendly and cheerful man....as cheerful as the sunflowers displayed all over his bike. He was literally beaming with pride. He told us his name is Soh Eng Beng, and he has a penchant for flowers, especially sunflowers. I shared that I have a friend, Chan Aik Hoon, who is also called Sunflower. She likes sunflowers because they always look towards the Son!

May God bless you, Mr. Soh, with many sunny and safe rides on the road.
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Saturday, June 07, 2008

40 Tips for a Better Life

I am always so thrilled when people forward me interesting emails which are encouraging and inspiring. Hence, I find it difficult to comprehend why some people get annoyed or even offended and they would return with the sentence, "Thanks for the email, but I would rather you keep them in your inbox"! Perhaps these are very busy people, people who are busier than our Prime Minister, and have no time to read. With so much reading material in the market, I trust that when my friends forward me emails, they must deem them worthy of my reading or they would not have bothered to send. I believe the articles have been digested and regurgitated and I am at the wonderful receiving end. They remind me of the Readers' Digest, where you know that every article is worth your while to read!

Freddy Kang has sent me the following tips for a better life which I would like to share with my readers worldwide.

40 TIPS FOR A BETTER LIFE

1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk,
smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant.

2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock
if you have to.

3. Tape your late night shows and get more sleep.

4. When you wake up in the morning complete the following
statement, 'My purpose is to __________ today.'

5. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.

6. Play more games and read more books than you did in 2007.

7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, tai chi, and prayer.
They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.

8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6..

9. Dream more while you are awake.

10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less
food that is manufactured in plants.

11. Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat blueberries, wild
Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds & walnuts.

12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

13. Clear clutter from your house, your car, your desk and let
new and flowing energy into your life.

14. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of
the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest
your energy in the positive present moment.

15. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade
away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a
lifetime.

16. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner
like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.

17. Smile and laugh more. It will keep the energy vampires away.
18. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.

23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what
their journey is all about.

24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five
years, will this matter?'

26. Forgive everyone for everything.

27. What other people think of you is none of your business.

28. GOD heals almost everything.

29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

30. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your
friends will. Stay in touch.

31. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

32. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

33. The best is yet to come.

34. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

35. Do the right thing!

36. Call your family often. (Or email them to death!!!)

37. Each night before you go to bed complete the following
statements: I am thankful for __________. Today I accomplished _________.

38. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.

39. Enjoy the ride. Remember this is not Disney World and you
certainly don't want a fast pass. You only have one ride through
life so make the most of it and enjoy the ride.

40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about.

May your troubles be less, May your blessings be more, May
nothing but happiness come through your door!

Man GETS and FORGETS - GOD GIVES AND FORGIVES!!

Thursday, June 05, 2008

Nothing happens by Chance!

So often, we hear of people saying, "We are so lucky" Someone has defined “Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” To me, luck is defined as "When preparation meets divine arrangement!"

I remember many years ago when I was teaching in Singapore. All of a sudden, I felt an urge to send second sister some money. Not much, but then my salary as a teacher at that time was also not high. I decided to send Sis $115/-. $100/- for her and $15/- for my Second Uncle, the only surviving brother of Dad's. I am one of those impatient people who detest lining up at banks and post offices! Through the years, I have mellowed, as now I will read whenever I am stuck in long queues.

A few days' later, Sis called me and sounded quite emotional. She had lost her purse which she had momentarily placed on her desk in the kindergarten where she was teaching. She was upset and panic stricken because that was her last $30/- which would be the marketing allowance for food for the family for the last few days of the month. (My brother-in-law was then a pastor of a church in Penang and his income was just sufficient for the family. Thank God, now the family is better off). Sis refused to allow worry to overcome her, and prayed that whoever had stolen her purse be blessed. If the person had to resort to stealing, it implied he must be very desperate. When Sis returned home, she was surprised to receive my bank draft for $110/-! She had received three times what she had lost! I was thrilled to be the instrument used by God to bless my Sis.

My friend, Freddy Kang, sent me this email which also shows that God often sent angels in the form of people to help us in our moments of despair and desperation. For those of who declare, "Where's God? If I can see Him, I will believe!" No, you can't see God but you can see Him through His love and blessings, carried out by people around you, as the following story will illustrate.

ON THE ROAD

It was a warm Saturday morning in Montpelier, Idaho. I had worked all week
and was thinking about passing on my much-needed yard work for a day of
fishing.

I'd never been to this particular reservoir before, but had always thought
about going there. Some of my customers at the feed store had told me how
to get there, but it wasn't what most people would consider an easy trip.

Working around the yard that morning, it wasn't until 2 p.m. that I finally
convinced myself I needed to stop and head for the reservoir. I called my
brother-in-law, Ron, and invited him to join me. I didn't bother to tell
him our destination until I picked him up. He agreed to my unexpected
offer, so I threw my equipment into my old blue Jeep and headed over to
Ron's place.

“It's way too late to try to find it,” he said when I finally announced
where we were headed. But he still went along anyway.

Driving without benefit of a map or exact directions, we drove down the
highway until we came to a dirt road, where I turned off. After another
ten miles, we finally came to a fork in the road. I simply turned without
any hesitation.

“How'd you know which way to turn?” Ron asked.

“I'm not sure,” I replied.

That probably reinforced Ron's reluctance, as he kept insisting it was
getting way too late to even try to get some fishing in. Another five miles
passed, another fork in the road came, and yet another unhesitating turn
didn't help Ron's confidence in me. He was convinced we were going to get
lost.

Finally, at sunset, we crested a small hill and were greeted by the sight
of a beautiful reservoir. With the exception of one little, topless Jeep
parked near the water, there was no one else around for miles. We would
have the entire lake to ourselves.

When we approached the other Jeep, a young man happily greeted us. He was
there with his wife and their newborn baby, and their car battery was dead.
They had no matches to build a fire, no coats, and there was only one thin
blanket for the baby. He had been very worried, knowing that his wife and
baby wouldn't make it through the night if he had walked out the many miles
for help. And since it was getting dark, he might even have gotten lost.
The young man told us he had just had the Jeep overhauled and was out with
his family for the day. After the battery died, he had decided to stay with
his family and simply hope someone would come along.

Ron and I got out our battery cables and gave his Jeep a jump-start. He
profusely thanked us, and they left for home.

As we watched them drive off, Ron turned to me. “You still want to fish?”

“No” was all I said. We got back in our own Jeep and followed them out to
make sure they got home safely.

That was over thirty years ago. I have never returned to that reservoir,
and I am not even sure if it's still there. But there is one thing I am
sure about: the Lord answered a father's prayers through my love for fishing.

By Doyle Portela






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